I had a close female friend ask me when a good time to have sex for the first time is. I told her whenever you’re comfortable. For me and most men if we are just out for the sex we are going to get it and go no matter the time frame you put on us. We pretty much know what we want and if it’s not you, our actions will be a reflection of that. So ladies if you want to give up the goods go for it when you’re ready not when you think we will respect you.